I stole this idea from an article from a “brother” (Boxer). The article mentions that there is a programmer who was building a database of porn actresses/actors. I had previously had seen a mention somewhere of AI recognizing faces in social media posts. The embedded picture of a tweet mentioned that it was to help others to check if their girlfriends were ever in them.
I remember the original “Thot Audit”, mostly from a few articles from Newsweek and Reason. I am never one to revel in an activity that creates shadenfreude but I did find it interesting. Waitresses get hit for their cash tips. So do male strippers. A lot of cash jobs are supposed to do it. I just found it interesting that many people overlook this.
I believe that the reckoning from their outing might encourage safer and more responsible behavior instead of the cycle we have seen so far. (Act crazy and then act like a saint when you grow tired of it but with anonymity).
To be treated as you actually are. To be treated as people view you. Not a reinvention.
Men don’t have this luxury. We have prison records available online. We have “people search” results on the internet. (Uncommonly; we also have been doxxed by fervent white knights but I wasn’t going to mention it). Nevermind sex offender databases as well.
It isn’t too late to turn away from this before it bites you in the rear end. Learn to balance a checkbook and don’t be a “whore” of the modern kind.
“Regard your good name as the richest jewel you can possibly be possessed of — for credit is like fire; when once you have kindled it you may easily preserve it, but if you once extinguish it, you will find it an arduous task to rekindle it again. The way to a good reputation is to endeavor to be what you desire to appear.”
“It takes 20 years to build a reputation and few minutes of cyber-incident to ruin it.”