***Re-blog from a friend at The Red Quest. As always; I am highlighting others work on the weekend. A lot of what you see in this post applies in real life. Recognizing red flags and screening those in your life. You need to set boundaries and this is a great example of the kind of stuff you need to say “no” to. Take care.***
How she behaves towards other people is one day how she’ll behave towards you.
Is she mean to other people?
One day she’s going to be mean to you, probably in the same way she’s mean to others.
Does she like to steal? Does she rationalize stealing?
I’ve run into girls who like taking alcohol from parties, or silverware from restaurants, that kind of thing… they seem proud of it. I haven’t seen the deeper levels of this behavior because the stealing is enough for me to distance myself from them.
Does she somehow always have drama with her friends, bosses, family?
One day she’s going to have drama with you, and by the way the police and courts are going to believe her, not you. Logically you can argue that this is not fair, but it’s true, and you need to protect yourself, not argue about notions of fairness.
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